Worst day of the war…

Taking a look at a branch of my husband’s family tree, I had previously noted the death of a 30-year-old man, Private 17400 William J. Horton, of the Gloucestershire Regiment, at Loos, France, on 25 September 1915. He left a widow, Rosa, and three young children, but beyond that I had few details.

I came across a blog today that listed him along with 10,291 others who died on that day, the worst day of the war thus far. So many casualties, in fact, that the blog could not list them all on one post – this is just part two. This prompted me to look more closely.

The CWGC site describes the four Battles of Loos including this one.
“The battle plan for Loos was approved in July 1915 by the commander of the British First Army. It was to cover a 10 km front, and the British assembled six infantry divisions (60,000 men) to face two German divisions (approx. 30,000 men). Allied heavy artillery went into action at 5.30 a.m., and the British army used poison gas in combat for the first time on French soil to support the infantry’s advance. “

“Two divisions (the 15th Scottish Division in the north-west and the 47th Division in the south-west) were deployed in front of Loos and took the town at heavy cost on 25 September 1915. The British continued the offensive on 26 and 27 September with several assaults, relieved by French troops on 29 September. “

“The offensive was halted on 14 October, but fighting continued until 19 October. Loos was back in Allied hands, at the cost of 60,000 British wounded, missing, and dead. The Battle of Loos definitively entered British history.”

This put William’s death into its sombre context for me and encouraged me to look further into what happened to the family. My husband had remembered that some Horton members had gone to the USA and sure enough, I found that Rosa had gone to the States and remarried. I now have a new line to follow and some more positive outcomes to report to my husband…

Loos Memorial courtesy of Terres du nord on Find A Grave.

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Thank you, Martin Parr.

I was sad to see the news of Martin Parr’s death yesterday. I have come to appreciate and enjoy his work, much of which was documenting the ‘tasteless cheerfulness’ of what he saw. His work has been controversial at times, from his ‘signature’ use of bright colour to the subjects he chose. I never found his work quite as cruel or intrusive as that of some photographers, feeling that the images were underpinned by a wry affection for our collective human foibles – along with a good eye for the ridiculous.

I worked for a number of years in the Black Country and thoroughly enjoyed his Black Country Stories; I felt the engagement he had with the subjects and community did shine in this. (So sad that The Public, the art gallery where the exhibition was held, and which did much to develop public engagement with the arts, was closed not long after.)

His Oxford series also resonated, having studied there (in the days when women were only 1 in 10 of the student population which was even more public-school dominated than today). Other work I enjoy in a less personal way and there is some, as with every artist, that doesn’t move me particularly or that I don’t take to, for whatever reason, but still may admire.

One set of images however, simply stopped me in my tracks, ten years ago now. We went to the splendid Compton Verney gallery to see The Non-Conformists, a very early body of work he compiled with Susie Mitchell, later his wife, from 1975 – 80. Her words, combined with his images captured some local, disappearing communities and their lives, the Hebden Bridge ‘chapel’ folk much like our family and those I grew up with in the nearby Halifax area, our lives puctuated by the Methodist chapel calendar, from Boys’ Brigade nights to fetes and fundraisers via two services and Sunday School classes every Sunday. My oldest memories are from almost two decades earlier, but the lingering vestiges of that world are here for me, vivid as ever.

Compton Verney 2015 Exhibition information – have a browse…

To younger people or those hailing from very differing communities this might mean nothing but a passing monochromatic glance into a now-distant past. To my eternal surprise, I found myself being literally reduced to tears as I ‘recognised’ the essence of family and friends in the the chapel stalwarts at the Anniversary celebrations and preparations (recalling my great-aunt’ s serious Sunday hat and rag rug made of family memories), remembering freezing at a cousin’s winter wedding at a moor-top chapel, and a furtive tear even rolled down my cheek at the gentleman nonchalantly perched one-legged on the stepladder, dapper in his suit, tie and hat, cleaning the fanlight glass above his front door, an unwitting representative of an entire generation and lifestyle captured for posterity.

I didn’t just see those chapel interiors, I could smell again the faint lingering dust, polish and flower scents, hear echoes of rousing Wesleyan tunes and wheezy organ, see the sidesmen with the wooden collection plates… The exterior shots brought with them a smell of chimney smoke, November fog and damp woollen coats.

Compton Verney 2015 Exhibition information

If Martin Parr had taken no more images than these, he would have left a creditable and significant piece of history and ‘done right by’ those Yorkshire Non-Conformists he and Susie documented. Yet this was only the start. How many others will look at his collections and feel that visceral reaction of recognition of a vanished or vanishing community? Not to mention the wry smiles and generous laughter with, rather than at, some of the absurdities of life then, as now.

Have a nice rest, Martin.

INT You’re obviously not afraid of death, are you?
MP Not particularly, no. It would be a nice rest.

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Centenary (and a bit)

I discovered this just a few days too late to share it on their 100th anniversary!

My great-uncle Willie married his first wife on 9 September 1925. My grandma was a bridesmaid. I don’t have any pictures but there’s quite a detailed description in the Halifax Courier of 10 Septemberwhich was lovely to find. (Courtesy of Find My Past). Sadly, they only had 10 years together as Elsie died in 1935.

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Brief Encounter

A blurred impression of a woman walking by, just the lower torso in a turquoise dress, and calves, with arm and hand nearest the camera in motion too.  The bluey-green pale tones predominate, with just the flesh tones varying.

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Starry night?

A picture taken in a local nature reserve; Eades Meadow is a lovely, restorative place. In this in-camera double exposure the glorious May flowers are like stars. Sweet dreams…

A double exposure image (flipped 180 degrees) of trees in a meadow with the spring flowers looking like stars. in the new 'sky'

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Absent friends

I lost one of my oldest friends earlier this year and am still heartsore. We were very different characters and often on opposite sides of an argument. We met at secondary school and went to the same college at university but after that our lives went along very different tracks and always geographically distanced.

I recently re-read the lovely poem she wrote and gave me for my 50th birthday and decided I wanted to share it more widely; whilst the detail of it may not make much sense to others, I think the intent and message are clear. That’s part of the pain of loss, isn’t it – that shared background and fabric of one’s life becoming vaguer and more one-dimensional when there is no-one around who shared the same experiences? It gives me some consolation that I can feel our friendship shining out of these few verses more eloquently than I can say.

FORTY YEARS OF RUTH

A ruby, a rose, a Ruth,
Which would I rather have?

Let me see the thick long plait
From my tall solemnity,
Deep eyes and heart,
Three generations of Bradford
Are grounded, know the place.
An African blond doesn’t fit.

Yet she sounds like me.
She knows the place, has a view,
Speaking Swahili and
Knowing the words to Ilkley Moor b’aht tat!
The common ground appears
And maths equations bind.

Kafka perturbs us both.
The Stuarts lead to understanding
That teachers are less wise then god
And studying Catullus
Is not so easy
In an all girls school.

How bright we seem,
Growing up, exams we walk
To Oxford and Cambridge,
To Lady Margaret’s Halls
And Wadham College bar
Via Köln, Stuttgart und Berlin.

She heals my veins,
Consoles and weeps on me,
Nearly drowns me,
And mocks me rotten.
We hunt the glorious asparagus
And talk the world till dawn.

Through relationships and death,
Working hard, moving away,
Too busy, too tired,
Long silences and the odd birthday card
The core is stretched to spring back again
Stronger, shorter and more dear.

This poem is short for forty years
Too raw for artistry
Not sweet enough for a rose
And weaker than true ruby red.
Well bugger that
It’s just right for me and Ruth.

Gillian
2005

Lady Margaret Hall 1976. Clare, Ruth (me) and Gill
Gill at work, London 1980s
Gill in our garden with Stewart, 2023.

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Connections…

One of the pleasures of interacting on the web is making connections or re-connections with people you’d probably not otherwise come across. Thanks to t’internet and having shared a few random memories, I now have had contact with three people around the world who went to the tiny ‘dame school’ I attended for a couple of years in Nigeria. Here is a snippet from the memoirs of a much more organised writer than I am… Enjoy Paul’s memories of Bukuru, near where we were in Kuru.

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A poetic delight – enjoy!

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Happy Anniversary!

On Monday 16th October 1893, Frank Marsden, 22, married Sarah Helliwell, also aged 22, in Halifax Parish Church (St John the Baptist), now known as Halifax Minster. (The interior had been restored only a few years previously by George Gilbert Scott and his son John so would have looked quite spiffy!) 

Frank was a greengrocer, of Green Lane, Halifax; Sarah’s given address was Church Street, Halifax. No occupation is given for Sarah on the certificate, just the status of spinster, though in 1891 she is in the census as a worsted reeler.  Her father, John, is listed as a mechanic (in 1891 he describes himself as a dye works fitter)  and Frank’s late father, Jonathan, as a greengrocer. John and Lily Helliwell (Sarah’s sister) were the witnesses.

Engraving of Halifax Parish Church,1829. Frank Marsden adn Sarah Helliwell married here 16 Oct 1893.

I’ve not found anything further about the wedding unfortunately, but there is a family photo taken some 10 years later from which I’ve clipped Frank and Sarah to celebrate their anniversary. I never met this couple, my great-grandparents, but do know from the next generation how much they remained at the absolute heart of their family and how much they were loved.

Frank looking dapper in suit and hat with snall son Willie dressed in a sailor suit.

Sarah in a high-necked dress, seated behind a decorative iron railing and holding baby Dora  in her arms.

The featured image of the flowers at the head of this post is from a family wedding last summer – I thought that reflected a nice link to the present and sufficed to commemorate their anniversary!

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140!

I was reminded when logging on to do some transcription work for a family history society that it’s 140 years ago today since my paternal grandfather Frank Milton Dobson was born. As I really need to crack on and finish the job I originally set out to do, this will necessarily be fairly brief, but I couldn’t let it pass without popping up a brief recognition of the date. We were never big on those sorts of anniversaries in our immediate family, but I’ve become much more aware of them since starting, albeit in a bit of a disorganised and desultory fashion, on the family history!

I’d always assumed we were Yorkshire Tykes through and through, so imagine my surprise to find Frank was born not in God’s Own Country, but, shock, horror, on t’other side of the Pennines, in Manchester! His father Frank Edmund was a Master basketmaker or skep maker; his mother Jane, I was equally surprised to find, originally hailed from only about 10 miles away from where I now live, in Worcestershire. Frank M. was the 6th of 8 children and he was christened in Manchester cathedral, not far from Bagshaw’s Court where the family home was.

Even my father and aunt barely knew Frank as sadly, he died when they were only 5 and 3 respectively. This probably explains why I don’t recall any conversations about Frank when I was young. It was only after dad’s death that I discovered there was an entire step-family, with whom there’d been no contact, from Frank’s first marriage to Ellen Louisa, but that alone merits another tale, thanks mainly to members of that side of the family who got in touch some years ago…

Frank and my grandmother married in 1926, some time after he had been pensioned off from the army for ill health, and he is listed on the marriage certificate as a Tailor’s presser. As Gran was a seamstress (as were a couple of her sisters) it might perhaps suggest how they originally crossed paths. They had only a few years together, and from a cousin of my dad’s I gather that for some of that time he was away. He died, aged only 47, of double pneumonia and phthisis (TB) in hospital in Halifax in 1932.

I still have a bit of work to do on filling in some of the gaps in his documented history and will, I hope, record some more of what I have discovered, but for now suffice it to say of the granddad I never knew that it’s been interesting getting to know more about him from the jigsaw of bits that are available. From the very few photos I have, he certainly passed on a strong family resemblance to some relatives; not sure I’m too happy that I seem to have got the ears, though!

Frank Milton Dobson

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